Upsetting queation!?
I a short time ago recentally found out that one of my best friends is taking hash and i am pretty angry at him (i hate drugs i even have problems taking paracetemol) But he dosnt know i know so what should i do.Being around him newly sickens me!!
Answer: When dealing with any one who is taking a drug as this can be impossible to handle
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Even the provisional party has a difficult time in a moment ago getting them to abide by the court ruling to do a detox program
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And you friend is not different once started using it is almost always on the way to adjectives time user
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And there is nothing you can do to exchange some ones life style to what you think they should do
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How would you nick it if someone came up to you and told you you should stop doing that because I don't like seeing you do it
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You would more than plausible tell them where to seize off at right well
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Now you know the rest of the story.
i know how you discern...the thing is you can't make the culture change unless they want to, and if by letting your bf know that you know and that you feel this path, maybe it would let them see that its really affecting you and stop. i'm sure its not addictive, but conceivably there are underlying issues...hes stressed? something happened within family, i don't know, even if hes doing it for fun. Let him know how you feel, trust me, if you confronted him, told him that this is affecting your relationship, or dispense your reasons why drugs are bad, he'll def hold it into concideration, especially if you and a group of his friends confronted him. Communication is key, maybe he'll reveal whats really going on. But its usually freshly a phase, because as he does more and you stop hanging out with him, he'll see that its pointless to do it instead of lifeless out with you. Just don't accuse him of anything, drugs aren't necessarily discouraging in his eyes, just report him how you feel and why, how its affecting things and how you feel around him.DO IT! ^-^ It seems to me the kinder thing to do would be to look deeper. Your friend isn't turning to drugs a short time ago to upset you! People take drugs, prescription / recreational because there is a problem. Your friend might merely need someone to talk to if you sustain him now you might prevent him entering a cycle of dependancy. Psychological or Physical..
Why not confront him with what you know and how does it spawn you feel, maybe nearby is a chance for your friend to salvage the friendship, if you keep it to yourself it would become close to a time bomb that may explode in ugly method later. Simple, don't go around him, when he ask why you haven't be around? tell him. This will leave the bubble in his court and it will be up to him to decide what to do almost it..
You may hate drugs but you need to respect your friends result. It is his body. He is not forcing you to do it. I guess you could just text him and make clear to him how you feel...Im really sorry about that thats really doleful.
everyone needs to learn their own course, but let him know that you know and encourage him to move out the stuff alone.