What to do about a fellow massage student making fun of me on table?
I am 50 he is 21, have an issue with me. Only three of us in class, the other gal is 24 and the two hold become close. I am odd person out and the 21 year antiquated has to make joke about me. What should I do?
Answer: Our school policy is to be in motion to a teacher and see if they can help you work it out. If they can't afterwards you can go to the owner. If they can't solve it then you can purloin it to the next level and achieve the government involved. Although I'm sure the teacher can lend a hand you work it out. I'm also in a small class and it's not without it's drama. Good luck!.
I'm so sorry this entity finds it necessary to ridicule and mock you simply to make himself quality better mate, forgive him for his spitefullness, forgive him for his inconsiderate ways .... don't let his disrespect crush your beautifull heart and spirit, for if you do it will surely make you as bitter and harsh as he so sadly is ...... release the resentment you hold for him and feel the big weight of burden lift & remove the colour your heart and your spirit ...... this will put the bounce back in your step as surely as the sun will come up tomorrow
Just smile for a while smile at him and try your bestest not to react when he jives you buddy ....... don't let him nurture his negativity ..... let it go and show him some compassion and big-heartedness for he surely must have a very discouraging and sorry life to get glee from cause others misery.... he deserves your pity mate
hope you work it out buddy
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I would be honest with him. The point is not how he makes you get the impression... but that he is a thief.
You have remunerated money to be in class to learn. If he is waisting his animation and yours with immature comments, consequently he is stealing your time and energy. Let him know this is how you see the situation and that theft of drive is no different than stealing out of a wallet.
If you relay your opinion in a clear, direct demeanour, he will most likely laugh rugged at first and comment the way a child does. But he will think give or take a few it the next time he starts to make a kid. If needed, call him out infront of the young woman. I might do that the second time if a first privat talk does not work..
Take the road less travelled and forget about the immature ones. Not everyone is allowed the privelege of aging. I, too, am fifty and see that youth IS wasted on the youthful. Truly not all twenty somethings are like that. There's correct people of all ages.
Love him anyway. You don't enjoy to like him..
Best of luck..
STAND STRONG!!.
Just ignore him. When he make jokes just smile to yourself and know that you've be around the block a few times and are wise enough to not hold to stoop down to that level. If he doesnt get a aversion he'll stop doing it. People like that are just wanting attention. Give him a couple of whack upside his head. Then see if he has any joke to tell. Good Luck